Love is truly blind. When you are in love, you are blind to the faults of your partner. Since you are love struck, you forget to ask some questions that will no doubt improve your love. However, these questions skip the mind of some individuals, because they are afraid of the answers they might get. Whatever the case may be, make such you ask your significant other these questions. It will really accelerate your love life:
- Are you an optimist or pessimist person?
A pessimist is oftentimes negative. He/she doesn’t see anything good in whatever you do. If you are already dating a pessimist, try to encourage them to be positive.
- How many kids do you want?
Two, three, four, six…???? a national team?!
- Do you want the man to work and the woman to stay at home with the children?
Some men prefer their partners to stay at home while they work; while for others, the wife must work. So, the answer will help express her opinion on the question if she is comfortable with staying at home or working.
- Do you like to travel?
You will be shocked that not everyone loves travelling. So, before you start planning any vacation, find out if your partner loves travelling.
- How important is money to you?
Money is important in any the relationship. It is the driver that drives the car of any love life. However, money is not the ultimate. Some people are so materialistic and greedy that they can do anything for money. You don’t want to date a greedy man or woman.
- Are you a spender or a saver?
Yes, we know women are natural spenders. But it doesn’t mean that they do not save. A spender will always be broke, especially if he/she doesn’t have enough and still spends recklessly.
- Do you need to raise your children in the same religion you were raised in?
This is for those whose faiths are different. You may be Catholic and your partner may be Pentecostal, you have to know their opinion on which church the children will attend.
- How important is sex to you?
Sex is another issue you talk about especially if you are in a long term relationship.
- How much space do you need?
Some people may like you to give them space from time to time, while others want you around all the time, both physically and emotionally.
- What is your dream?
Anyone without a dream is not worth dating. But, don’t break up the relationship, you can help them by further discussions.
- Do you want to get married?
Do you want to get married?
Written by Damilola Faustino