Being cheated on is the worst. You feel rejected and pissed, then the thoughts of ‘am I not good enough?’ come up and you end up losing faith or trust in men. But it also a great thing to be secure in the fact that your man is not cheating and the only way to be sure about that is if he ticks the following points:
His friends are also faithful
People are more likely to cheat if their friends are also cheaters. If his friends are trustworthy and reliable, it’s most likely he’s trustworthy too. You do not have to worry too much.
He feels loved and trusted
Most men don’t cheat because they’re not satisfied sexually. They cheat because they’re seeking emotional satisfaction. If they are feeling loved and trusted, they most likely not cheat.
He’s an extrovert
Extroverts are less likely to go along with the influence of others. But for introverts, they are actually more likely to cheat because they’re more likely to agree to someone propositioning them. So even if he’s always out there meeting new people, you actually might be safer.
Men who are easily aroused are more likely to cheat. But with the internet and your smartphone, this may not be tenable because you can sit in your home and still run things. This is true to a very large extent.
He makes an effort to always keep you updated about his whereabouts
You don’t even have to keep messaging or calling him to ask about where he is about a particular moment. You don’t even have to keep asking him about what he’s up to. You don’t have to keep pestering him about his plans. You don’t have to keep asking him about what’s bothering him. He’s an open book to you. He will willingly take the initiative to keep you informed on the ins and outs of his life. He would never want to make you feel excluded at all.
He keeps himself busy
If he is the type of guy who is always doing something, then chances are he probably will not have the time to engage in any 3rd party relationships at all. If he’s always getting caught up with his work, hobbies, or fitness routines, then he really doesn’t have time for dating other girls.
By Damilola Faustino
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