So I already told you about how to protect yourself while “getting down” this valentine’s day, so now I want to give you some positions to “get down”. And in the midst of that, make sure to include some dirty talk. Let me give you a tip about talking dirty: being specific lets the other person know what specifically turns you on. So tell them exactly what you like about their body, or exactly how they smell or taste. Say their name, it’s very sexy. Also this may seem obvious, but if you aren’t sure what kind of dirty talk your partner likes or if they like dirty talk at all, ask them.
And don’t forget, consent is absolutely necessary. That means no to coercion and violating trust and boundaries.
The Ying And Yang
Get super close with a dose of intimate eye contact by having the man partner sit on the edge of the bed, with the woman straddling her lap and drawing him in with one leg wrapped around his torso, the other on the ground for stability. Hold each other’s gaze as you rock against each other with sweet, slow thrusts.
C.A.T. stands for ‘Coital Alignment Technique’ and guarantees some of the strongest clitoral stimulation of any sexual position! It looks like the missionary position except instead of being chest-to-chest, the man’s chest should be farther up and to one side, over either the woman’s right or left shoulder. She bends one of her legs by 45 degrees and this pushes the base of the man’s shaft into near-constant contact with her clitoris.
The Lotus Position
This is a tried and tested, woman-on-top sex position dating back centuries. In this position, the woman straddles her seated partner, bringing her face close to his for some of the most intimate sexual contact she can have. It’s ideal for couples who want to feel closer to one another and experience a more sensual type of lovemaking.
The One Up
She lies on the edge of the bed, he kneels on the floor and raises up one of her legs. Ask her to hold her leg up by wrapping her hands under her thigh. This position tilts her hips and puts her clitoris in the perfect position for cunnilingus. As he goes down on her, she’ll be able to help add some movement and guide you to the perfect spot.
The Exposed Eagle
This will require a considerable degree of flexibility and strength. The easiest way to get into the exposed eagle position is to start off in the Cowgirl position. The woman needs to be on top of her partner with her knees on either side of him. She then needs to lie backwards until her back is resting on your his thighs and knees while she is still on her knees. He can raise his knees if she isn’t flexible enough, so she is more upright. The man now needs to raise his upper body so that he is in a seated position. He can put his arms behind his back to support himself, or he can put them around her lower back.
The Boss Chair
The man sits on a sofa or a recliner and parts his legs. The woman kneels between the man’s legs and gives him a blowjob. As with the ‘Elevator’, she can give him manual stimulation besides stroking, sucking and licking his shaft. She can swirl her tongue around the head of his penis and fondle his testicles.
To spice things up, how about you listen to this playlist while trying out your favourite positions:
All The time- Jeremih ft Lil Wayne
Down On Me-Jeremih
In My Bed-Rotinmi
Kisses Down Low- Kelly Rowland
Neighbors Know My Name- Trey Songz
Netflix And Chill- Rotinmi
Or Nah- Ty Dolla Sign ft The Weekend
Sex Room- Ludacris
Kitchen Table- Rotinmi
I Like- Jeremih & Ludacris
Every Kind of Way- H.E.R
Nobody Has To Know- Kranium
Talk To You- Dusten Truce
Girls Need Love- Summer Walker
Earned It- The Weekend
Use Me- Miguel
These Arms Of Mine- Otis Redding
I’ll Kill You- Summer Walker ft Jhene Aiko
Sweat- Sarz & Wurld
Turn Me On- Norah Jones
Call Out My Name- The Weekend
Sure Thing- Miguel
Right Now- Trevor Jackson
Say It Again- H.E.R
Birthday Sex- Jeremih
By: Dammy Eneli