By Damilola Faustino
Guys and girls show their love and affection differently. For guys, they are often aloof as they are expected not to show any emotions. But truth be told, if you are in love with someone, it will be difficult to hide it. You will display certain behaviours that will definitely give you away. As such, we highlight how guys change when they are in love with a girl:
He listens to you
Generally, women are much better listeners than men. The curious thing is that men will always intently focus on things of interest. So, when a man not only hears you but actively pays attention and intelligently responds, you can have confidence that he’s in love.
He is ready to make sacrifices
Making personal sacrifices is much easier when doing it for a person you love. In fact, guys who are in love will feel tremendous discomfort at the thought of their woman being unhappy – especially if there’s something they can do about it. As such, making sacrifices for your happiness is one way a man demonstrates his love for you. He will always put you first, even if it means changing his plans or stepping out of his comfort zone.
He shows vulnerability
Men are naturally cautious about showing any behaviour that can be perceived by others as a weakness. In love, however,this attitude often falls by the wayside. If you are in love, you are far more comfortable with feeling and acting vulnerable. Vulnerability will assuredly make several appearances throughout a relationship especially if you are the only one he is dating.
He loves how you look
Remember how much effort you put into looking your best on the first date? It is simply because you want to create a very good first impression. When you start dating and you become more comfortable, you need to impress significantly declines. So, whether you look good or not, he will still appreciate you. You are beautiful no matter the situation.
He fights for you
A guy who loves you will not allow someone else to harass you. He will fight for you and do everything he can to get you out of a difficult situation.
He fights with you
If a man loves you and is emotionally invested in his relationship, he will initiate a fight to avoid losing you. This said, ensure that fighting does not become the order of the day!
He treats your family and friends with respect
If you know that someone is important to you, their friends and family become important as well. The reason is simple: you cherish them, and the last thing you want is to hurt their feelings.