So a young gentleman woke up this morning and decided that he wants to carry Eromz’s love life on his head. He has been tweeting a series of tweets about Moe Odele and how she is taking advantage of Eromz, and how she should let him heal. Because I have time this morning, I have decided to explain to this man, why what is going on between Moe and Eromz is none of his business.
In case you’re not aware of what’s happening with Moe and Eromz, check out the series of tweets below:
— Moe (@Mochievous) November 24, 2020
Yes! I thought I was gonna have to ask š
Had fun too, see you soon.š https://t.co/tug9GHIdk6— ERomZ #EndSARS (@simplyEromz) November 24, 2020
Beautiful
Funny
Smart
Visionary
Banging body š„°Omo, a whole spec! šāāļø Wahala for who dem never arrest ooo! @PoliceNG una thank you o!!!! š„³
— ERomZ #EndSARS (@simplyEromz) November 24, 2020
So apparently they went out for dinner, came back, and continued flirting online. After these series of tweets, the whole TL scattered and started planing wedding with wedding colours of protest white and Feminist coalition yellow.
Then the next day, this young man tweets this:
I really hope the Eromz guy gets the chance to heal. It has been days of abuse and trauma in the hands of this foolish government.
Iām sure your flirting and hormones can wait. Chill!
— HARRI OBI (@Harri_Obi) November 24, 2020
Initially, I understood the concern, till I saw the second sentence. See as he is sounding like someone’s dad, telling them that they’re flirting and hormones can wait. Sir, is it your hormones?? TF?? Then he went on to tweet a series of tweets and of course, he had a lot of Nigerian men agreeing with him. See the tweets below:
The energy is always different when the genders are switched
It would have been predatory for a man in his 30's to ask a girl in her 20's out on a date after rendering her assistance but let's keep vibing, we need an #EndSARS protest wedding
— EmmaCraft (@emmanuel_nzube) November 24, 2020
Okay so first of all, why is it that Nigerian men can never just fight for men? Why must the roles be reversed all the time? It’s always “If the roles were reversed, feminists would bring the world down”, “If the roles were reversed, women would be making noise up and down”, how about you focus on fighting for the man you have decided to fight for without including women.Ā If you think what she’s doing is wrong and you want to defend your fellow man, then go ahead but leave women out of this and stop with the role reversal.
By the way, if the roles were reversed, the reason why it wouldn’t have gone well on the TL is because there is a looooong history of men taking advantage of women who need help or whom they have helped, and we all know this. So when we see a thirty-plus man chasing after a 26-year-old woman whom he just helped, even though it looks legit and consentual from both ends, our first instinct is to “attack” because we’ve seen (or even have been in a position) where a man “wants” or feels like he deserves something from a woman whom he just helped. You can call it PTSD.
So stop making noise about “if the roles were reversed” because 99.9%of the time the roles have been reversed!
Itās unfortunate. Heās a willing victim. I hope she does the right thing and leave him alone, and let him heal.
— HARRI OBI (@Harri_Obi) November 24, 2020
And he canāt obviously resist so as not to appear rude to his helper. Eromz is a willing victim and our prayers are with him. https://t.co/RoSaGDOsfV
— HARRI OBI (@Harri_Obi) November 25, 2020
Lmaooooo he’s talking about it like Moe kidnapped Eromz. If Eromz was a “victim”, and he couldn’t resist, there’s no way he’ll be tweeting about it this much. Eromz even quoted this tweet and said he was fine and made a joke about sending Moe a good morning text, so rest.
She can love him next year. Now is the time for him to heal, spend time with his family and plan his next moves. Chasing him since when he was locked up and now at his most vulnerable state where he clearly canāt resist a helper, is predatory behavior.
I donāt make the rules. https://t.co/bnTbUQDZ2P
— HARRI OBI (@Harri_Obi) November 25, 2020
Chasing him since when he was locked up??? Ah ah now, calm down with the lies
Itās a shame. He needs help but clearly canāt cry out so as not to look ungrateful. https://t.co/tHwn00jCel
— HARRI OBI (@Harri_Obi) November 25, 2020
Oya you, go and help him, since you have seen that he needs help and he can’t cry out.
Imagine saying "No" to Moe's subtle advances make police come arrest you again..
Gender wey no sabi handle rejection, omo you go sleep for Panti š¤£š¤£š¤£ https://t.co/gKFbovkVrC
— ONYE THE KACHI (@KachiKach_007) November 25, 2020
??????? please between men and women, who is the gender that can’t handle rejection? Do you think women are like men who would punish you or kill you for saying no to their advances? Please.
Leave him alone? Bruv, there's only one simple reason for all this theatrics playing out on this streetz. It's so public opinion would prevent homie from even 'thinking' about leaving. Its entrapment if you ask me… It's left to him now to figure it out.
— Cool Geek (@CoolGeek14) November 24, 2020
HAHAHA the second tweet is so hilarious when I saw it, I almost spit out my water because I couldn’t hold my laugh.Ā You do realize that Eromz is also part of the so-called “theatrics” right? He’s been tweeting about it, even more than Moe. So how is the public opinion stopping him from leaving when he’s even the one encouraging it.
Last last what Moe and Eromz are doing might even be just bants, and they’re actually just friends, so this one that you people seem to be carrying the matter on your head, I don’t get. And even if it’s actually serious, they’re two grown adults and it’s consentual, but if you are worried about Eromz, how about you send him a DM and ask him how he’s doing?
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