Ever wonder why some relationships end up with someone walking down the aisle while some sadly just end up down the well, even after many years of hard work and commitment on the ladies part. There was this one time when I was playing cuddle with my ex-boyfriend and jokingly told him that I wished our daughter would have his pink lips. He visibly turned pale before my eyes and quickly switch the topic, without being I knew I we headed nowhere and it was time run.
Rather than remain in a relationship and turn into an old maiden that gets dumped when he finds a younger prey, go through these 14 tips and find out if there are wedding bells in your future:
-He is always open to discuss certain topics like marriage and settling down and jokingly brings up these topics himself.
-If he introduces to his circle of friends and is openly affectionate to you when in their company.
-He considers you good enough to spend time with you outside the confines of his /your place or a hotel room.
-He invites you to his family events and even goes a step further to introduce you to his family members while you’re there.
-You’re updated and included in his career plans and development. Does he consider getting a new job close to the town you’re based in? If so, good for you!
-Does he get excited about his friends who are getting married and offer his support to them? Might just be a sign he’s positive about marriage and will soon consider it himself.
-He pushes you to become a better person and is likewise interested in the growth of your career, academics and hobbies. He readily offers his help and encouragement when you’re facing challenges.
-When he is willing to invest in your future like paying your higher education, a professional course or offers you financial support to start a business, you want you can sure tell he’s really hooked for life.
-If he’s beginning to go the extra mile just to curtail the certain behaviors of his that you hate and is willing to work out your differences then you know he’s evolving for the future.
-When he begins to use words like “we/us” rather than “you and me” or words like “when” instead of “if” then you can sure tell he’s positive about you both ending up together.
-He makes reference of the future with you in the picture and is totally comfortable being himself around you.
-When he’d rather skip hanging out with his friends and have a stay in with you, might be he’s started considering himself a family man.
-He doesn’t mind sharing his belongings with you and makes sure you know that you know that whatever is his is accessible to you at any time.
-He’s solidly behind you when you’re facing a difficult situation and offers you a shoulder to lean on.
If your bae is all of this and more then horray, it’s time to go ring shopping. And if he’s not… please sis, you need to make hay while the sun shines. Remove that man from your life ASAP!
Written by Treasure Asanammy